how reading blogs has changed my life

I spend an inordinate time reading blogs. Frankly, I’d prefer not to calculate how much. Finding new blogs, reading old ones. Google Reader is one fine tool. And technology can be a timesuck, but as long as it doesn’t get in the way of my life, it enriches how I live my life.

Some bloggers have taught me how to cook. I’ve braised, steamed, baked, fried, toasted, chopped, sautéed, mixed and broiled because of the recipes and how-tos and stories I’ve read on food blogs across the Internet.

Some bloggers have taught me how to better my career. I’ve read about entrepreneurs, writers, communicators, nonprofit pros, business execs, PR pros, artists and everyone in between. The steps they take towards a better business encourage me to take steps of my own. I would be a weaker professional if not for these lessons.

Some bloggers have made me laugh. I’ve laughed at pop culture, laughed at myself, laughed at politics. Our world is so serious sometimes and who among us can’t use a smile and a laugh?

Some bloggers I simply admire as I try to learn. Most of these are the fashion bloggers and the design bloggers and the DIY bloggers. Yeah, I’ve pinned it all on Pinterest and yeah, I’ll get to it someday. In the meantime, I’ve got a major girlcrush on the outfits that come from the marriage of J. Crew and a vintage thrift shop. Plus those to-die-for kitchens. (I’ve got intense kitchen crushes, friends.)

But what I’ve learned most of all is that we are not alone. Especially in our struggles and in our suffering, we are not alone.

2011 was a difficult year for me – I’ve alluded to it more than once here on this blog, and I’ll go in depth over time. Suffice it to say, transitions are like spices. A few take a dish from good to great, but too many or too much and the dinner is ruined.

As I read blogs this past year, I didn’t always find solutions. But I found camaraderie. I found others who had walked similar paths. I found others who were on the same paths I walked. I found people who triumphed. I found strength. I found tough love and lessons and fierce focus and a call to a bigger, brighter faith. I found a call to a reliance on Christ.

A common theme echoes in my stories and the stories I’ve read and the stories I’ll never read: God uses our shit for His glory.

God uses our mistakes. Our depression. Our sadness. Our burnt bridges. Our nerves and anxieties. Our perfectionism, and our far-from-perfectionism. Our failures. Even our full-of-ourselves successes. God uses every last bit of it.

Although . . . I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention the real-life relationships that teach me this too. I have too many friends to count and tears well in my eyes at the mere thought of how much they’ve blessed me. They’ve shared stories from deep in their souls and I’ve seen God work in those too.

Bloggers, thank you. Thank you for putting it out there. We can grow from the strength we learn from others. Thank you for reminding me that I’m not alone; in fact, I’m blessedly connected.

Every morning on Twitter, I share the best thing I’ve read that day. I read too much wonderful material to not share it, and I share in hopes that it will challenge and encourage you too. Follow me there — @SarahKoci. And I’ll create a little roundup at the end of each week too, so you can check them out over a cup of coffee or a glass or wine.


23 thoughts on “how reading blogs has changed my life

  1. Great post–I also especially love the truth “God uses our shit for His glory.” Amen to that! I hope this year is less “spicy” for you, and that you have time to process whatever has been happening and feel your feet on the solid ground of Christ.

  2. Jenna, so glad you visited! Thanks for your sweet words. Hoping to write more in the future about struggles and how God carries us through!

  3. Amen and amen! What a blessing to know that we are not going through the “shit” alone – and what a blessing to have others going through said “shit” to point us to the One who can make amazing out it for His glory!

  4. Oh how I love this very true statement… “transitions are like spices. A few take a dish from good to great, but too many or too much and the dinner is ruined.” It put a smile on my face because it summed up my 2011 year of transitions. I will tuck that one into my quotes to steal memory bank. 😉 ha. And yes, how thankful I am that… “God uses every last bit of it.” Enjoyed visiting your blog today.

    • Casey, ah! I am flattered and psyched that you visited! Thank YOU for sharing your heart with all your readers constantly. It’s a blessing indeed.

  5. I, too have learned so much in the little time I started doing this. We are not alone and if only by words we connect with each other, then that is the most wonderful thing the internet can do.
    Keep it up!

  6. Pingback: best things i’ve read: week of 3.5.12 « inspiration-driven life

  7. Pingback: inspiration-driven links, week of 3.19.12 « inspiration-driven life

  8. Pingback: on asset building « inspiration-driven life

  9. Pingback: inspiration-driven links, week of 4.8.12 « inspiration-driven life

  10. Pingback: inspiration-driven links, week of 4.22.12 « inspiration-driven life

  11. Pingback: how Influence strengthened my heart « inspiration-driven life

Leave a reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s